Yesterday was Father's Day, and I saw only a few blessings in my social circle. There were no promotional banners in the mall either. It's really as the internet says, Father's Day is a holiday that even businesses can't be bothered to promote. Just now, my child treated me to dinner, and there was surprisingly no discount. I remember there were stewed soup and egg tarts on Mother's Day. Being a man is quite unfortunate.

To all my frens in the dynamic, many of you must have become dads by now, right? Taking this opportunity, I wish you a happy "Pay-off Festival", may you find happiness and health, you’ve worked hard. Honestly, when I was a kid, I often fantasized about how nice it would be to be a rich second generation, just like Sicong, carefree and loving freedom. It was only after becoming a dad that I realized the stories in fairy tales are all lies; the arrival of little ones and tiny ancestors is the true starting point for a boy to become a man.

In this day and age, raising a family is indeed not an easy task. I believe that most of the dads who have entered the crypto space, whether you are dealing with spot trading or contracts, regardless of how your current profits or losses are misunderstood by your family, your most genuine thought deep down is to earn more money to improve your family's living conditions. Indeed, the market has not been encouraging over the past two years, and many things have not gone as hoped. I understand your struggles, and I know how exhausted you feel. All I can say is to hang in there; there is still hope.

Making money to support the family is a responsibility for every father. But I wonder if you have heard that our ability to earn money and our genes are largely related to our father's personality. Similarly, your current personality and behavior are also affecting your children's financial luck. Tonight, we won't talk about coins and market trends, nor will we discuss the American concept of 'Rich Dad Poor Dad' investment philosophy. Instead, let's talk about the Feng Shui and destiny passed down from our ancestors.

Taoist destiny theory states that in a person's Ba Zi, wealth is divided into regular income and speculative income. Regular income represents stable earnings such as salary, which implies a relatively consistent and sustainable source of income. Speculative income represents unexpected gains, which are unstable sources of income but can have extremely high upper and lower limits. To make significant wealth in life, one must take risks with speculative income. The older generation often says, "A strict father raises a filial son, while a loving mother spoils her child," but in our kinship relationships, speculative income corresponds to the role of the father, which is worth our deep reflection.

Why does the unexpected wealth represent the father and also symbolize the greatest fortune? Looking back at traditional families, it is generally the man who goes out to earn a living while the woman manages the household chores, one is yang and the other is yin, one is dry and the other is moist. As children, the greatest source of wealth we could obtain was the snacks, milk tea, new backpacks, new toys, and the occasional pocket money brought back by our father, all of which were the most delightful unexpected gains in life, and these unstable surprises often greatly depended on the father's capability. Now that I think about it, it does seem to be the case.

In traditional Guangdong families, the love of our mothers strengthens us internally, while the teachings and example of our fathers determine how we deal with money. Social customs often celebrate the greatness of maternal love, but they tend to overlook the more decisive role that fathers play in shaping a person's character and temperament. In fact, the things you learn from your father while growing up will subtly start to take effect after you enter society, and our ways of interacting with others and handling wealth usually resemble those of our fathers.

Friends who have a bit of understanding of Bazi destiny know that if the wealth star in the destiny chart is in a good state, either it is useful or strong, it means either the father has the ability to ensure that you are free from worries about food and clothing, or the father's love and care for you can provide continuous support. Children who grow up in a warm family receive not only material support from their fathers but also a sense of confidence. They do not need to be overly concerned about a few dollars of pocket money, and when faced with opportunities to make money, they can maintain composure and decisiveness. This open-minded attitude, in turn, becomes a magnet for attracting wealth.

On the contrary, if "similarity and competition harm wealth" appears in the BaZi, the wealth star is very weak, either unfavorable or being harmed, which often corresponds to a distant or tense relationship with the father in reality. It may be the strangeness brought about by long-term separation, or perhaps the absence of the father's care during childhood, or the gap caused by a strict educational approach, or the various burdens brought by the father's bad habits. The emotional deficiency in childhood can plant the seeds of scarcity deep in the heart. After growing up and entering society to make a living, some people become anxious and irritable in the face of events, some lie and break promises, some are overly concerned about wealth opportunities, and some are eager for quick success but repeatedly face setbacks. It seems to be bad luck, but in fact, it is the imprint of childhood emotions that is at play.

Those who give love will receive love; those who give money will receive money in return. By observing how a person treats money, one can roughly deduce their relationship with their father. Similarly, by observing how a person interacts with their father, one can also roughly determine what their financial fortunes will be like. Just as the saying in BaZi astrology goes, "the proper wealth is like a wife; without her, wealth does not come in," it expresses the life philosophy passed down by our ancestors for hundreds of years. In modern scientific terms, this means that the energy magnetic field among family members flows positively, generating a more powerful energy effect.

Indeed, in the face of the torrent of the times, there has already been a huge generation gap between our money values and those of our parents, especially as we find ourselves in this crypto space, which most people refer to as a scam and speculation. Perhaps they do not understand our industry well, or even have some misunderstandings, always thinking that we are participating in some illegal activities of speculation and profiteering. However, the older generation's advice on being pragmatic and steady in wealth acquisition might remind us to respect the market and be wary of risks. Their nagging about being diligent, proactive, and balancing work and rest may also remind us to understand self-discipline, self-improvement, and seizing opportunities. The reason why some people feel that we are not pursuing proper careers is simply that the ways two generations chase wealth are different, but the original intention for both is to provide a better life for our families.

If your financial luck is not good at this moment, it might be worth reflecting on your relationship with your father. If there are unresolved issues between you and your father, it is akin to the concept of competition harming wealth in fate analysis. Even if you are in a cryptocurrency world full of opportunities, you may still miss out on wealth. Repairing your relationship with your father is not only a way to cherish family ties but also a reconciliation with yourself.

When we accept our father's imperfections with a peaceful mindset, acknowledge past regrets, understand that their achievements also come with difficulty, and learn to find a balance between adventure and stability, while guarding our true selves amidst the greedy candlesticks and the warmth of family ties, we may unravel the secret of wealth and happiness in our destiny. After all, the most precious wealth in the journey of life often lies in those emotional connections that we tend to overlook. Of course, this is not a sermon; as adults, we can just touch on the matters of feng shui and metaphysics.

The ancestors often said that blessings are blessed and blessings are rewarded, and you must also understand that filial piety to your parents and kindness to your wife and children will definitely improve your career and luck. is the so-called family and everything is prosperous, but it is a pity that Chinese men are subtle in their bones, and often hide their fiery emotions into silence. They are accustomed to carrying the burden of the family with their busy figures day and night, and telling their love with constantly improving material conditions, but they forget that the power of words also warms people's hearts.

In fact, compared to expensive gifts, your father may long to hear your sincere feelings and have more companionship. Start with the little things; why not go have a drink with the old man for a late-night snack, and then say loudly: Dad, I love you🍺