Let me tell you a little secret to thriving, which is to only follow yourself. It's very simple, guard your own energy. As long as you don't pay attention to anyone else's dynamics, don't speculate on anyone else's thoughts, don't imagine things that haven't happened, and don't foolishly try to change others with your own subjectivity, reduce your empathy for others, and refrain from getting involved in their causes and effects, stay focused, improve yourself, keep growing, make yourself simpler, a bit muddled, a little dull, and a bit slower, you will have much less trouble and much more ease.