Master Hongyi said: "The most taboo thing in life is to be too fulfilling, I don't believe you look at the people around you, some people have a bad marriage, but their children are very good, some people have a good marriage, but their health is not very good, some people have a very smooth career, but the family is not harmonious, some people have a harmonious family, but their lives are very poor. ”

There is no perfection in life, only self-feeling, and the best state of life is that the flowers are half-blooming, the wine is half-scented, the shade is appropriate, and it is good for yourself.

No one's life will be fulfilling, people's desires are endless, there is no end, if you understand the impermanence of life, you will know to understand and tolerate shortcomings, endure defects in life, instead of blindly pursuing perfection and perfection.

The ancients said: "The momentum cannot be exhausted, and the blessings cannot be enjoyed." Do not do everything, do not say everything. ”

Everyone's blessings are finite and inexhaustible. In nature, the moon is cloudy and sunny, this matter is difficult to complete, the water is full, and the moon is full and lost. Half and half are the real perfection.

Only those who are content and happy will truly have happiness, if greed is not enough to swallow the elephant, you will lose not only happiness, but may also lead to disaster.

Control your desires, within your ability, do what you should do, don't demand, don't have extravagant expectations, and be content with a certain life, even if you are not satisfactory in this regard, you will have a wishful side.

As someone said, "If things don't go your way, there must be another arrangement, and all that is lost will come back in another way." ”

What people are most afraid of is not being satisfied, the most painful thing in life is that things backfire, and the sad life is living in desire, not knowing how to comfort themselves, not knowing how to suffer as much as possible, and the truth that things will be reversed.

Mo Yan once said: "The most taboo thing in the world is to be perfect, you see the moon in the sky, once it is perfect, it will be lost, and the fruit on the tree, once it is ripe, will fall immediately." In all things, there must be a little lack in order to persevere. ”

If people do not pursue perfection, they will not have so many troubles, and a happy life lies in their own mental balance, pursuing beauty, but not forcing perfection, so that they will be at peace.

You must know that God is fair and will not let all happiness and pain fall on one person.

I remember that Mr. Yang Jiang once said: "God will not let all happiness be concentrated on a certain person, getting love may not get money, having money may not have happiness, getting happiness may not have health, having health may not have everything as you wish." ”

In the process of pursuing happiness, anyone must know how to stop in moderation, not forget the light in the darkness, see hope in the midst of suffering, cultivate inner satisfaction and an optimistic and positive attitude, learn to balance themselves, and understand that the East is not bright and the West is bright.

This means that we should not only pursue beauty, but also have inner peace, and have our own values and goals and pursuits according to our specific situation.

The most important thing is to learn to adapt and accept the imperfections in life, have a positive and optimistic attitude and know how to look at problems dialectically, so that you can have hope and fighting spirit.

You have to know that you can't ask for it, unsatisfactory is the normal state of life, things backfire, sometimes it is not necessarily a regret, perhaps, what you want will come back in another way.

Therefore, in the face of the impermanence of life and the shortcomings of life, knowing that everything is always happy, not having to be strict about perfection, knowing how to stop in moderation, is contentment and happiness, and it is also a kind of life wisdom. #比特币#